Love is caring even when you’re angry
“Love is caring even when you’re
angry”
Hi! Whenever I’m browsing I always
have been seeing this picture on most social media networking site(s); which caused
me to be inspired. Through it, I’m imagining myself with my husband as we grow
old together despite of all things we are going through.
How I wonder? Has
there been any perfect relationship out there? As they say: there is no magic-formula
for love. For me, I cannot say that my relationship with my husband is perfect,
but both of us value our friendship which results into keeping the love alive.
Although, I’m not a love guru/expert
but here are the things to keep in mind; so we could keep the love alive. Here
are some of my tips:
· Always
share Positive feelings – remember positive attracts positive! If you first
give the positive attitude, 99% he/she will turn it back to you.
· Find at
least three qualities you love about him/her and be thankful about it - just
focus on the good qualities all day long, and try to ignore all irritating
attitude(s)/habits you annoyed about him/her.
· Forgive &
Talk - whenever you have arguments whether he/she or wanted to be
right forgive and talk about the issue in a calm way.
· Back Off - there
are some certain situation(s) that you cannot handle; especially if either of
you is mad (scenario: arguments) & when the situation arises use a Back-Off
Plan, this
will ease the situation. Just try to
think: if both of you don’t back off anything can happen.
· Always say
I love you - ( ehm..calling all husbands )! Girls always want to hear
that they are loved and being loved, but girls remember to give it back the
love (hehehe…). And one more thing always say thank you and ask your husband
what can I do for you today and do it.
· Good Conversation - conversation
is very important when it comes to relationships. Talking about anything and
everything, like past, present and future events. A “Good Conversation and
Healthy Talk” is not about problem, issues, concern, negativity, etc. Please
have some time to talk outside the box.
· Support
& Listen – When your partner is talking always try to listen. Make
him/her feel that of all the people out there you are the one interested on
what he/she is saying. I’m not saying you fake your partner, sincerity is the
key. And give your partner a support on all (good) things he/she wants to do.
An extra effort is important here like for example he is interested on cars and
you don’t have any idea about it, try to research so that whenever he talk
about it you can share ideas/thoughts (same as for husbands).
· HHWW, Hugs
& Kisses – holding hands while walking, a simple hug and quick kiss
to your partner will be a great way to express your physical intimacy to
him/her.
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